I struggled for the longest time to put this video up, not because of what she particularly said, but because I don’t even like the term ‘side chick’.
(Side chick is a term for women who are consciously dating another person’s husband/fiance/boyfriend).
I really choose not to believe that any woman who is capable of getting her own man, will be comfortable sharing; and then decide that she is the not-so important one of the two women.
I strongly believe that it comes with some fundamental issues.
It has to be that these women don’t know what power they have, it has to be that they have given up on true love, it has to be that they have refused to let go of what is toxic; and so, they settle for the crazy term.
And as much as I know that there are women who are comfortable being the secret second or not-so secret helper, deep down everyone wants something they can proudly show off and keep exclusively. So, there must be something wrong.
No matter how much attention and love the King gives a Queen, she is never going to be fine hidden or pushed to the side.
And, as regards this video; LOL.
The lady said women after a tired day of pursuing career and all, women will appreciate if they come back to meet a happy man who has been serviced by another woman. LOL
Anyway, that’s her opinion.
As for me, I will want to come back home to a happy man, knowing that I am the reason for his happiness.
Plus, don’t both the woman and man need servicing after a tired day? #Just saying.
Watch the viral video below:
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